Someday in your life u'll be moved by a random kind act of a stranger, and some other day u'll be amused by friends who'll be ignorant for they to avoid troubles.
life is sure weird and unexpected. Neither of those is right nor wrong. both carries their own benefits and risks. If something good happen, you should be thankful, and if something bad happen, you should also be thankful.
That is why since the beginning we should always put our dependence and hope to Allah, not humans. I had a painful lesson in the past, and now that i've learn it, i cant be more glad. My ship sails smoother, and im at the deck with a smile and heart of a steel.